In 2023, over 450,000 qualified Pakistanis are contemplating the idea of relocating overseas for various reasons.
Whether it’s for studies, work, or personal aspirations, moving abroad is a significant decision that requires careful consideration.
Mohsin Hamid’s Cautionary Quote:
Before you jump to conclusions, take a moment to reflect on a quote from Mohsin Hamid’s novel, “The Reluctant Fundamentalist”: “This is a dream come true. Princeton inspired me in the feeling that life was a film in which I was the star and everything was possible.” It’s essential to read the entire story and not rush into decisions based solely on initial inspiration.
IELTS Preparation:
If you plan to move to the United Kingdom, Australia, or Canada for studies or work, your proficiency in English, as measured by the IELTS exam, will be crucial. While aiming for a score of eight is ideal, a score of six can also open doors. If this seems daunting, remember that the Middle East remains an option with numerous job opportunities.
Homesickness Is Normal:
Feeling homesick after moving abroad in 2023 is entirely normal. However, don’t let it hinder your pursuit of dreams. Life is about embracing new experiences and not always staying in one place.
Embracing Independence:
Prepare to take on responsibilities such as chores, bills, and grocery shopping, as you won’t have the convenience of domestic help like ‘manzooran baaji’ and ‘driver uncle.’ Embracing independence will not only teach you to manage your finances but also make you appreciate the hard work performed by household staff back home.
Living Alone:
While you may cherish your privacy now, you might find yourself missing the company of loved ones when you’re abroad. Siblings, younger cousins, and even ‘phupo’ (aunt) can become dearer than you anticipate. Living alone has its charm, but on special occasions, you’ll have to settle for video calls with friends and pretend not to feel emotional.
As Mohsin Hamid writes, “I would soon be gone, leaving my family and my home behind, and this made me a kind of coward in my eyes, a traitor.” Keep in mind that even Mohsin Hamid splits his time between different places.
Moving abroad in 2023 can be an exciting adventure, but it’s essential to consider all aspects of such a significant life change. Good luck on your journey!”
Source: Mangobaaz
